Love...A true love...or just attraction...And what have you experienced? I can say for sure you have experienced all of these three states of mind. But it's not easy to figure out what exact feeling we had in each case...
Some say that they can fall in love rather often, others tell the exact number of their "loves", some say that a true love can occur only once in life (and, as a rule, it is the first one and the only one), others claim there is no love at all (we definitely don't want to believe in it).
A true love or attraction
Perhaps, our article will help you to figure out what a true love and attraction is. Attraction is, most likely, a passion, hormones' activity. As for love, it is a strong feeling, which encourages a person to change his usual behavior, his principles and everyday acts. He starts to feel his soul mate very strongly, sincerely she shares all her joys and sorrows. The person changes and he changes, first of all, unconsciously, because he is led by love.
A sincere love
When you love and are loved then you totally give yourself to your lover, you are in the state of tranquility and bliss. A sincere love gives happiness and you don't pay attention to trifles of the others, it doesn't matter to you at all. Because such a close voice of your sweetheart immediately helps you forget about a problem, about troubles at work and even cure your cold.
Love really makes miracles happen! A lot of films are made about the magic of this feeling, and not in vain, because it is the feeling that gives us incredible power, gives us wings and magic.
Not a mutual love
It is just love, a true love, which can occur only once and for the rest of life. There are cases, of course, that a person has loved several times, but for some reasons he didn't manage to preserve the relations. If this person still has the same warm and special feelings, has no disgust and revenge (as it usually takes place), then it was a real love. But only not a mutual one...
A true love comes through hardships and distances, overcomes doubts and misunderstandings.
A play of feelings
In the case of true love the person becomes dear and the closest one, you can never hurt him or her, even after you may have fallen apart, he will remain your friend, will always be there and will always support you in difficult situations. Which cannot be said about attraction... Attraction is a play of feelings, even though those are pleasant sensations and emotions. This is a passion and night rendezvous, crazy acts and just an incredible adventure. But the point is that all these are temporary. The more passionate and bright the relationship started the sooner they will come to an end.
Attraction
Everyone has experienced attraction. Even just while walking to the shop you can meet a person who can make you lose your mind. And then suffer from insomnia, because you cannot think of anything else but her. But it ends very quickly. Once you stop seeing and communicating with this person, you begin to think less about her until finally you stop thinking at all and you meet another person who makes you lose your mind. And that's OK, it shows how lovable you are.
Attraction is not hard to meet, but it is much more difficult to fall in love, truly and sincerely...
Love always lives in our hearts, thoughts and dreams. Those who haven't loved yet, are unable to understand what this feeling is like, but once they have found their love they realize that this is a true love...
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